A Pandemic and Birthday Blues

I had my birthday a few weeks ago. It was the most unusual birthday of life. There were presents, well wishes, and even some left over cake from my parents visit, but I didn’t see anyone aside from Brian. Six days earlier we had begun a self-imposed shelter in place to reduce the risk of COVID-19 infecting our high risk household. The rational part of me was, while not happy, secure in my decision, but the birthday girl in me wanted to throw a fit.

J. Crew pop-over top from Poshmark, Madewell denim, and Madewell boots

For the first time since moving to Coeur d’Alene, I’d asked some of my friends to get together. I didn’t ask for anything big, we’d landed on wine tasting and dinner the Saturday after my birthday. Within a week of making those plans, COVID-19 had hit, and life was put on hold. I was sad not to see my friends, get out of town, and drink wine. But do you know the worst part? I already had my outfit picked out.

I had purchased a new (to me) top from Poshmark and had hounded Brian about a certain pair of earrings on Etsy that would look oh so good on my birthday. I knew I’d pair it with my favorite pair of Madewell denim and boots. I could see it in my head, but unfortunately, I just couldn’t see the day for which it was planned. Now you may be wondering, what’s with the pity party, Claire? We’re all making sacrifices here! And you’re right, I know I’m not the only one dealing with disappointments and stress right now, but I was still bummed, so get over it.

All dressed up and no where to go (for now)!

The disappointment didn’t last for long because the weather on my birthday and the weekend after cleared. There was sun and mild temperatures. On Sunday, Brian asked what I’d like to do, and do you know what? I put on my birthday outfit, had him take a few pictures of me for the blog, and then we went for a drive. It turns out, it’s the small things like dressing up and going for a drive that will save your sanity during a pandemic.

Stay safe, friends.